Are you operating at your highest level? Nikki is a true spiritual guide that helped me breakthrough and expand my mindset and capabilities. She gave me tools that will last a lifetime- meditation, mindfulness and yoga practices that resulted in a mindset and flow I would not have otherwise achieved on my own. With her customized approach and deep caring, she is an amazing human being that I highly recommend.
My experience with Nikki was amazing. I wasn't sure what I was getting myself into but I could feel we had a connection and there was something I was meant to learn from her. Wow was I right! I'm so glad I listened to that feeling and decided to work with her. She was a safe and trustworthy guide into the depths of myself and from that journey together I emerged with a new treasure that was there all along but I didn't have the tools or guidance to access it before. Nikki gave me the tools and guidance to access the buried treasure within me and today I feel more empowered and aligned with my true Self unlike never before. Nikki, I can't thank you enough for what you did for me, for the places within my Self you helped me go and for helping me feel safe and supported throughout this process of discovery. THANK YOU so much for the work you do and all the time and love you put into it. You are an amazing facilitator and you had a really big impact on me. THANK YOU!
Do you want to live in a world where women are free to celebrate their full sexual radiance without fear, where sexuality is honored and celebrated as a gift of creation? What if I told you that you can take a class with other women and experience this gift.
Last week I took a class "SEXUAL RECLAMATION" with Nikki Stearns. I arrived with my friend, extremely giddie and nervous, not knowing what to expect and excited for what was about to unfold.
Nikki invited us into a conscious container that felt safe, inviting, and warm. Nikki's taste of decor is purely exquisite, and she had candles on, soft lighting and roses. I also loved the smell of the invigorating scent of myrrh she was burning to set the tone of this sacred space. She made a very hip and sexy playlist of music we listened to help put us in the sexy mood.
We gather around in a small triangle shape to ground ourselves and worked on our breathing to connect with our bodies. We then were asked to answer four questions and share those feelings. In retrospect, I now understand that Nikki was inviting me and teaching me how to use all of my 5 senses, so that I can use all my senses for pleasure. Through the avenues of touch, movement, breath and sound, Nikki helped me creatively and in the moment bring myself to full union within my mind, heart, body and soul.
Nikki's class taught me to honor my body and beauty. She help me celebrate pleasure and my sensuality. She help me transform beliefs about sex and heal from my past. This workshop was about slowing down and becoming more present in the moment, indulging myself and truly nurturing all of me.
I highly recommend her class to any women who wants to get in touch with her TRUE self. Any women who are desiring to experiment and liberate themselves from shame and guilt about sex and pleasure. If you want to learn more about your own body, give Nikki's class SEXUAL RECLAMATION PATH a try.
After I came back home from my second Ayahusca retreat, I felt totally lost, confused and basically without an identity. I was unable to even imagine any foreseeable future for myself, and I was beyond scared. As messed up as my life has been, I had never experienced feeling that lost before. My first few ceremonies were beyond difficult, but the ceremonies during my second retreat were so profound, I was having the hardest time coming back to my life. I honestly don’t recall how I was guided to find Nikki, but my gut was telling me I needed some seriously help with integration. Unfortunately, the therapist I had been with for many years wasn’t experienced with sacred psychedelic plant medicines. The retreat centers where I worked with the medicine were not only far from home but they didn’t offer private one on one integration services.
When I found Nikki’s website, her specialties and mission were perfectly in alignment with what Ayahusca told me I needed in order to heal myself. Even then, I was hesitant to start working with her; however, after my very first conversation with her, I was totally convinced that she was exactly who I need to work with. It was absolutely obvious to me that she was divinely sent to help me through this stage and work.
I am so grateful Nikki was put into my path, she has literally been a beacon of light for me as I’ve been swimming through the dark shark-infested waters of my subconscious mind, and recent life challenges. She was able to not only tell me what I should expect through each stage of my integration process, but was able to shed light on some very challenging situations I found myself in. I’ve never met anyone who has given me such straight-forward, no BS advice that I could immediately apply to my life for instant relief. I needed help and she was more than I could have hoped for. She helped home in on my inner voice by echoing what my higher self has been trying to tell me. I am still in awe with how much knowledge and wisdom such a young person can have, and I know that only comes from having done some serious work herself, on herself.
My gratitude, respect and admiration for Nikki cannot be aptly put into words and I hope she is always accessible and available to share with me what she learns as she continues down her own path.
With the sexuality work I have done with Nikki I've developed a high level of confidence to gently explore my sexual desires with a positive association in doing so, solidifying clarity in my sexuality. This mind set has spilt into my day to day life leading me to being happier than ever with my confidence and sexual life flourishing. During this process I've kicked the unhealthy relationship I had with masturbation that was linked with pornography with what feels like no effort at all.
I went into the Conscious Menstruation program at my wits end. I struggled with extreme period pain, predominately on the first two days of my cycle. I had seen different gynos, been tested for endometriosis multiple times, and alas the pain was debilitating. I would drink herbal remedies, take 9-12 ibuprofen a day, and smoke copious amounts of marijuana to survive. This program changed my life. For the first time, I was able to truly connect to my body and understand my cycle. My womb and I were no longer at war, but instead in open communication with each other. I tapped into the pain, listened to my womb, and honored her. Instead of numbing the pain, I learned to heal the wounds. This program brought me deep healing from trauma, and a new understanding of who I am and what my desires are. I no longer need ibuprofen on my cycle, last month on day 1 I went dancing. I now honor time with my womb and myself. I've never known or loved myself more than I do after this program.
Nikki has had a powerful impact on my personal, professional, and spiritual life. Her coaching program opened up my awareness to the many moving parts of my cycle and the cycle of the cosmos.
I feel much more connected to my body and my intuition than before I did this program. Her skillfulness, compassion, curiosity, and commitment made the process so enjoyable. I look forward to continuing working with her!
- Leia, CT
Our first session this week, in one hour, I learned more about my cycle and power as a woman in relation to it, than I ever have. Here I am 42, a sex educator and Tantrika, and I finally learned the keys to being attuned to my cycle, my body, my psyche, and potency in an entirely new way.
She taught me how to actually honor it instead of pushing myself, like the patriarchy, and everything in this culture for the most part is designed and encourages. And to stop bitching about it, too! Nikki’s wisdom and guidance, in one session, brought about a massive change in how I honored my sacred moon time this month.
The results were immediate. I came to understand my “PMS.” I learned about how, and why, I need to set more clear boundaries, and move more inward, which I naturally want to do and often instead let the ‘outside’ override my internal guidance. I have had the deepest, most wonderful time of visioning, of creativity, of actual REST and RELAXATION, of LISTENING. I feel REPLENISHED instead of DEPLETED.
There is so much evolving from this! I am astounded by the changes already! No matter where you are as a woman, getting in tune deeply with your cycles (even if you are not menstruating you still have cycles) is one of the greatest gifts of empowerment you can give yourself.
- Anonymous, MA
I began my mindful menstruation with Nikki a couple of months ago. I was honest with her when I told her I was skeptical about the whole process, but that changed after my first menses.
Nikki began working with me so I could feel into my period and the cramps that came with it and for the second month in row now I have not needed to take any medication for the pain. Also when I was with her for my one on one womb work she helped create a space where I felt safe enough to reach down into the depths of my womb and extract emotions and hurts that I had been holding on to for years.Nikki is also great about keeping in contact and checking in as well as always being there for you when you need her.
- Alyra, NH
Nikki came in at a crucial time and not only gave me the tools to save me from myself, but also to deal with others at a higher, deeper level - with more care and understanding. It literally feels like an unfair advantage.
- Connor, NH
Nikki Stearns is a menstrual coach, yet her work can cross genders and really help anyone. She taught me that human beings are cyclical creatures and to be in tune with our cycles is crucial to our happiness.
She created a space for me emotionally after the death of a loved one to feel my grief without barriers. The stress was throwing off everything in my life right down to my period and mental well being. It was tough, but she helped to guide me through it in a really healthy and constructive way.
Completely non-judgmental, compassionate, funny and understanding this woman is a spiritual warrior and healer in many realms. I'd recommend her over traditional therapy any day!
- Nicole, MA
Feeling overwhelmed, lost, and desperate, I contacted Nikki Stearns knowing she could help me. I gave her a run down of what I was going through.
She has since guided me in getting in touch with myself, enabling me to tune into the feelings of my heart, mind and gut along with replacing the toxic self inflicted harshness and criticism loop of punishment that was feeding my anxiety with a reward system, just to name a couple of the things I have accomplished working with her.
- Dean, AUS
My name is Alexandra and I recently had a pleasure working with Nikki. Nikki is a great listener, attentive and tuned in. She was not only able to guide me through my process but, also, reflect to me what inner guidance I could use for help.
I have learned a lot about myself as a woman. She was very responsive, always on time and had solid continuity of our work. She does not create a dependent relationship while providing the all support and presence that is required.
Nikki is really good at what she does and I would happily recommend her!
- Alexandra, CA
I would like to honor Nikki Stearns by saying this: If you are in a place where you need to cut through all the b.s. out there around dishonoring yourself with negative talk, actions, or relationships regarding your Moon Cycles…
CALL her. Book your appointment now with this Goddess who truly ‘WALKS HER TALK!’ Her medicine is powerful and comes from her own inner journey of healing. You have my womb-wisdom-word that she is the REAL DEAL and will see the results and FEEL your power come back in your body.
She has integrity, honesty and radiance and you will engage in heart-to-heart conscious communication.
- Christiane Anna Rodriguez of Yoni Rising
Working with Nikki has completely changed my life. When I learned about menstruation, I got the “basics” as most little girls do in the 5th grade. Now, looking back on that education, it makes me laugh. I will make sure that my daughter’s education is VERY different.
We aren’t taught about the magic held within our bodies. We’re not taught how to sink into the feeling and retrieve the jewels of wisdom offered to us there. We are taught that our moon blood is a nuisance to be dealt with quietly.
We’re taught to keep pushing forward in our daily lives and to do whatever we can to make it seem as though we are not menstruating.
Throughout my time working with Nikki I have learned to listen to my body. I’ve learn that the pains of mensuration are a gift. That they’re asking to be sunken into and felt! And through the genuine FEELING of this pain we can actually experience pleasure. <—- that absolutely blew my mind.
My mensuration experience has been somewhat traumatizing. There was a time in my life that I bled every single day for 2 and 1/2 years. I had no idea what was going on with my body. I had no idea how to read the signs.
I knew my body was trying to speak to me but I couldn’t understand what it was saying. I ended up going to the doctor and getting some help but no one could tell me why I was bleeding continuously. It didn’t seem like anyone was really even trying to help me figure out WHY.
Just how to make it stop. The only suggestion from the doctor was to get on birth control to regulate my cycle. This never felt like the right option to me because I was trying to listen to my body. I didn’t want to confuse it with chemicals and muddy the messages that my body was trying to send me.
So I continued on naturally and just tried to do all the natural things I could do to promote a healthy menstrual cycle. This journey was long and I did A LOT to help myself. My body did eventually regulate and I was called to read the book “The Red Tent” by Anita Diamant.
This book was the catalyst that made me pray for a sisterhood experience. I learned so much about the sacred feminine from reading this book and it helped me along the path to explore deeper concepts of the sacred feminine that I would never have even known to explore.
After reading this book and praying for a sisterhood experience and I received the most beautiful, life altering experience in the form of a summer solstice retreat. It was at this retreat that I was blessed to meet Nikki.
So many synchronizations led up to me telling her my story, which lead to her inviting me to experience her course and track my moon cycle with her. The conversations that we had during this cycle tracking were SO activating.
She invited me to think about thing’s I had never even considered before. I learned so much about my body and my feminine magic during this time. It’s way too much to write here. You really have to experience it yourself to understand.
I HIGHLY recommend this course if you want to tap into the divine feminine wisdom hidden within you. This is the education that our daughters SHOULD be receiving while experiencing their first moon cycles. I am forever grateful.
I wanted to take a moment to share about some work I just did with my sister Nikki Stearns. I want to share this because when we come across tools, and medicines that work, it's important to share it with one another. Last month I was in a really hard place in my life.
The best way I could sum it up was that I was hitting up against internal walls, running as fast I could into them and slamming my body as hard as I could to attempt to break them down. Yup, that sums it up.
I was in a place where I was feeling stuck, frustrated, and trying so hard to pave a new way in my life, but kept hitting up against the same blocks, the same restrictions, and the continued exhaustion because of them. I had reached a place of surrender. And I knew I needed some support.
I do a lot of work in circles, and in groups, and that has been one of the most potent places of healing for me. I was down in Florida, so I didn't have physical access to circling, and I also felt like I needed some one on one support, to really focus on this.
So I reached out to my sister. Nikki has always held a space for me to share about my sexuality, my pleasures, my romances, both in ways that I was celebrating, and also in ways I was feeling shame and failure. I always felt held with compassion and understanding with her, and also a sternness (yes, that's her last name) and no bullshit feedback that I always appreciated.
So I reached out. My gut feeling was right. We signed up me for four sessions to dive into this block I was coming up against- mostly around pleasure and my sexuality.
One of the most valuable things about our sessions together is that it gave me an opportunity to give attention to something that needed addressing. It gave me permission to spend time, care, and to give love to myself where I needed it.
Nikki was helpful in asking the questions that sank me in deeper to what was alive for me. She offered suggestions, and some useful tools, and mostly, she helped me to find the solutions and answers within myself.
After the four sessions with one another, and the time I gave to myself to work on this pain spot in my life, I feel like so much liberation and healing has occurred. I do not feel like I am smashing up against walls. I feel more dedicated to myself, my healing journey, and my blossoming self love.
I wanted to share this, as an offering to anyone that is feeling like they could give more time and energy to themselves and places where they feel like they are stuck. Here is a way....Find some support, and give yourself the attention you deserve.
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